Monthly Archive for 11月, 2007
在别人看来，小叆快两岁了还吃奶、穿纸尿裤是非常奇怪的事情，可有的人却比这件他们认为奇怪的事情还要奇怪，“啊！小叆还在吃妈妈的奶呀？！”“你真幸福！”“恩，应该给她断奶了！”我想不通的是，既然他们觉得这是一种幸福，为什么又要停止呢？而且，这不是个别人的反应，我们遇到很多了。上一期的《父母》提到了几种断奶的方式，我们准备采用最后一种：让小叆自己提出不吃了。也许这是冒险，没有可能，但既然她有这个需要，我们又能给她满足，为什么不继续呢？纸尿裤的问题更简单了，现在国内外的研究机构或个人的研究结果一致表明：幼儿到三岁之前才能完全通过肌肉控制自己的大小便。所以，我不会让她用精神压力控制自己的大小便，让她尽情享受这段可以无拘无束大小便的时间。
THIS IS TO MOTHER YOU
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This is to mother you
To comfort you and get you through
Through when your nights are lonely
Through when your dreams are only blue
This is to mother you
This is to be with you
To hold you and to kiss you too
For when you need me I will do
What your own mother didn’t do
Which is to mother you
All the pain that you have known
All the violence in your soul
All the ‘wrong’ things you have done
I will take from you when I come
All mistakes made in distress
All your unhappiness
I will take away with my kiss, yes
I will give you tenderness
For child I am so glad I’ve found you
Although my arms have always been around you
Sweet bird although you did not see me
I saw you
And I’m here to mother you
To comfort you and get you through
Through when your nights are lonely
Through when your dreams are only blue
This is to mother you
